Growing up in a family of nine girls was always interesting. My mother was always careful to make sure that her daughters were treated well. Every young man who crossed the threshold of our door had to endure her many questions before she was convinced that he was worthy to date any of her girls. She was never afraid to ask the tough questions. Here is one that I remember quite vividly because it usually left others in shock. "Have you ever hit a woman?" Wow Mama...!
Physical and sexual abuses are crimes (criminal assault) punishable by law. If you or one of your family members have been a victim or is guilty of either of these, especially if children are involved, here are a few immediate actions that you should take:
- Get to safety
- Get professional counseling
- Get the police
Many of us have been too silent for far too long. It's funny how we talk a lot about other people's issues, but fail to open our mouths about the real concerns right in our own back yard. Truth is, that's not funny.
The Bible (Ephesians 5:28-29) reminds us that love doesn't bring bodily harm or hurt. Love cherishes and nourishes. Most people who have committed physical and/or sexual abuse have been victims themselves and are in need of help.
Silence fuels the fire. Failure to address a cry for help usually leads to further harm and emotional trauma that lasts a lifetime for all parties concerned. A failure to report such behaviors usually results in a continuing cycle of hurt because "hurt people" hurt people. Let's end the silence . Do it today!
Challenge:
- Be honest about any form of abuse
- Seek help